17 years. Happy Anniversary

Where to even begin...

I’ve been married to Shauna for 17 years. And today we celebrated our love. Many of you have been on this journey with us as we shared our challenges. But the one thing that never was challenged, was our love and dedication to each other.

I don’t know a lot of people in our shoes, I don’t know a lot of people that would have continued down the path we have found ourselves. Some even told us that divorce would be easier. But the love was there, and that made it worth it all.

I’ve been in love with Shauna since the day I met her. She’s my person. She gets me. I get her. We are soulmates. But just because you have all the social norms in place, doesn’t mean it turns out how we imagined. And now we have found ourselves challenging social norms. And all because of love. It has challenged many and even challenged both of us. But love continues to win.

So with the celebration of our marriage which was two has now found ourselves three. A triad. In a relationship we didn’t know much about but organically found ourselves deeply committed too. Our partner Brennan has come into our lives and added so much. So much love. So much laughter and so much joy.

This year of marriage I celebrate honesty. Courage. Love. Compassion. Being challenged. Being pushed. Owning our truths and encouraging others. We don’t all have to agree but you can’t deny love. I can’t predict what the future holds, but I can take it day by day. And with that I have to accept that changes will happen. And although we as humans are challenged by change, so much growth and understanding can come from it. But man is it uncomfortable!!!

Thank you Shauna, thank you Brennan and thank you for those that have embraced us and thank you for those that haven’t. We have learned so much from both sides of the spectrum.

Much love.

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